Well, I will confess to being the "pollyanna" although I didn't intend for my private comments to be publicized here. I also won't defend my actions in trying to help FIB move beyond the pain. Perhaps I AM too optimistic...too hopeful...polyannish. Label me GUILTY as charged! I also know after 2 years of reconciliation that there were lots of things I didn't see clearly when I was in the midst of my own darkness. I also do believe that sometimes we do more harm by the "your great/your spouse sucks" rhetoric. I was simply trying to give FIB my alternate viewpoint.

Just one Pollyanna's thoughts....

BTW, my comments didn't come after reading a couple of recent posts. FIB's sitch is one of the few I still take time to follow closely.

Best wishes to all my old friends here...and those newcomers who are in the midst of their own trials.


Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH"
Me: 62
W: 62
D:33 S:30 & 31
Married: 40 Years
BD: Sep 2006
Piecing: May 2007
2nd BD: May 2014
Working On It: Today