Regardless, I will say this about those of us who post here once things become clear and finalized. There are usually two camps.
The 'pollyanannas' who spouse came back and have pierced who believe that any marriage can be saved if you just give it enough time just like they feel they did.
And the...I never came up with a name...maybe the 'coffee beans'? Regardless...the ones who say move on don't waste time like they feel they did.
One noticable exception in my mind, Snodderly. She is her own group of sage advice.
To those in Limbo...you guys are Nomads and will eventually fall into one camp or the other.
As for your friend. He/she pollyanna. Could your wife come out of this? ...yes...if she was struck with amnesia and you got to rebuild her mentally.
I do agree that you wear your pain on your sleeve...and who wouldn't...but that will end.
There will be other holidays FIB. And when the paperwork is final, I'm pretty sure she will not be able to take them to the movies on the nights that the court has ordered you have them.
Outlast the b itch until then. Does she do it on purpose? More than likely, I'd bet on it...but I wouldn't bet the farm on it. You can never truely know why a person does what they do...even the ones who talk to you, but especially the ones who do not.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
