Originally Posted By: Indy36
So..by default I have reached one of my goals, but it doesn't count.


Yes it does. She certainly could have objected or gone to the futon herself, right?

Baby steps. And everything counts.


The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
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