You're in the right place and it sounds like you're on the right track. Keep up the good work and best of luck to you.

My H is in early MLC too. From what I understand we have a long hard road ahead of us. I'm so glad for this board and the people on it!

2009 info:
Me: 35
H: 37
M: 16/T: 18
D: 15
EA: 5-11-09 to 8-09

My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1832210#Post1832210