"If I had cheated on you and then filed divorce and left, how would you feel about lending me money?"
Doesn't matter how she feels about lending you money?
What does CIPA think about lending her money? Then communicate it very clear, confident and under control. Decide then act.
I was going to use that to say that it doesn't feel right to me to do something like that considering where we are at. I thought I would use that to make sure she sees my side and understands my feelings
Wait a minutes - am I nuts? Asking a WAW to consider what her LBS is thinking and feeling
Boy do I need a pile of 2x4''s for that one
DOH!
I'm just trying to put it in a manner where it's not going re-escalate back to WWIII levels.
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
