Couldn't possibly express to you how much I hate what you are having to swallow during this end time. If you truly believe that one reaps what they sow, your STBX has much unhappiness in front of her while you will, as BM said, have much peace.
There is no sense in escalating the drama that she perpetuates. You've learned a valuable lesson regarding handling the demise of a marriage. Hopefully the only use you will ever be able to make of this knowledge is to help others in a similar situation.
There are times when being the better person bites the big one. I can think of no one on this board who must know that more than you.
I'm not wallowing with you, just stating the obvious. How disappointing that each of us had to come to this kind of revelation about the person that we once thought we would be with forever. Just goes to show that you never know.
I'm sure it goes without saying, but I hope that part of your settlement process includes very specific and well defined language regarding custody and visitation. At least then you have recourse when she behaves poorly regarding your time with the kids.
Many blessings to you and your children.
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
