"If I had cheated on you and then filed divorce and left, how would you feel about lending me money?"
Doesn't matter how she feels about lending you money?
What does CIPA think about lending her money? Then communicate it very clear, confident and under control. Decide then act.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
