Hi D, I worked late Saturday morning sorry I didn't make your game. (H is full of it).
I have no problem giving you my number but I do not want to be bothered by anyone and there problems or about money & bills. I have enuff of my own problems now. I would like to talk to you. I don't want you to get in between whats going on. If I start get bothered or texts I will change my number cause I can't fight anymore. I love you cant wait to hear from you.
Love Your Daddy (phone number)
H has a slight learning disability so that is why the words are spelled wrong and punctuation etc.
Now, I don't know where he gets I'm bothering him when all I did was send copies and still do of statements for loans. So D called and H said that he isn't ready to talk to S yet, maybe after a week or so, and that he felt betrayed by her because she told her C about him drinking. The rest of the conversation went well. Thank God! He told her that he wouldn't be able to make her game this week either because of work but I know he is lying. But he wanted to see her. I want them to get their relationship back together. So I didn't get on the phone or anything, and I blocked my number when she used my phone so he would answer his phone for her.
The next morning he is calling me about bills of course yelling saying he will pay 1/2 of the one loan but doesn't know if he will have the money to pay other loan at the end of the month (what a joke). I can't believe he called, tells our D another words that he doesn't want me calling and he calls me. Then he was texting me saying that he put the wrong id # on the check. I told him he would have to call the bank then because I'm out of minutes because of our S being in the hospital. I say our S because he did raise him. His response was "yeah, whatever". Then he texted me back again and said he called the bank and just got home and was going to bed. I didn't text anything back.
Then he gets into stuff like it's all my fault that we are separated or I should say for him leaving. Tells me that all of the time. I just agreed. I'm so tired of his lies with this depression he doesn't even remember half of the stuff he did or said to me.
Last night she called H while I was at my second job and he wants to see her on Sunday and she asked me if it would be okay and I told her yes but only if I take you and pick you up because he isn't suppose to be seeing her in the courts eyes because of the drinking and driving and not agreeing to get tested. I didn't tell D that about him or courts.
So I guess we will see how it turns out. I just can't believe he was mad at a 12yr. old and his own D yet for telling the truth. He said to me also that now he can get out of work in the morning and go for a couple and not have to worry about anyone saying anything about it. He never drank like that, so I don't understand at all. I never stopped him from going anywhere or doing anything, I actually use to call my B and ask him to please call H and ask him to go out or something. H doesn't have many friends at all.
June, I am getting child support and I have to wait until Jan. to go back and get spousal....long story but I will make out better if I wait because I just found out that you can only go every 6 months. But I'm praying that we will be piecing our M back by then.
Kevin, I know what you mean about my first H but my second H did raise him and that is the only F he really knows so June is right. I know my S's real F loves him but he has been so messed up for so many years that there is nothing there, and my S loves my H. S actually asked H if he would be his Daddy when he was 5 yrs. old and H said he would definitely be his Daddy. So my S is very hurt but S wants to call him I told him to give it a couple of days because H being ill probably can't handle 2 children at one time as far as his emotions and S understood.
