Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

Oh I know things are wrong with both sons. S12 has develpomental issues courtesy of his "sperm donor". In fact he was stripped of all legal right to the name father, name removed from birth certificate and all. This was done to protect S12 from the truth. Sure we were to tell him one day MUCH fruther down the road and without the fact the kids family has been torn to shreds and all.

S12 was seeing a councelor last year on a 'need be' basis after OM just dropped him off at the playground for school and drove off. S12 proceeded to go to the train station and beg for money for a train. (Presumably to come to work as when I lived in town I took the train)

Anyway, the last few times dropping them off after our weekend, he has gotten more and more reluctant to return "home", getting depressed, crying and carrying on.

At this point, I pray to god that XW sees the turmoil they are going through and does something, anything, I don't care what to remedy it. The ball is in her court, she got what she wanted and what she thought was right for the kids. She's the one that gets a constant reminder everyday that although I was flawed at times, I wasn't such a bad father afterall was when she turned my defense of the kids best interest into a personal vendetta of her own.

I certainly plan to talk to him about it. Especially after S11 warned me to keep on eye on X about that delapetated house down there.