Keep in mind that he hugged me all night..I said ya know H we have been through alot together ( I never said ILY last night) and I remained positive..he never mentioned D..he really thinks he is going to live in a two bedroom house with his sister, her two kids, a grandma and brother in law...really? He said he did not want to go there..but he does not want an apartment either..I have not nagged..have not said ILY..remained calm and patient with him. I hate this! This SUCKS!