Dday, is your son in counceling? I'm not saying anything is wrong, but D is very hard on everyone and especially considering what your XW has said to him, he may benefit from it. I think you should talk to him about this 'map.'
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08