BJ, great attitude! I can say first hand that dropping the rope did wonders for me. My XW no longer had power over me; it was liberating. Almost immediately, I felt impowered. I began to get happy again and I found women in general were attracted to this new postive outlook. It became who I am.

I reconnected with my friends and made lots of new ones. I had a new life and I was happy again, while my XW continued in turmoil. Now she's been emailing wanting to know how my life is and missing some of the good things we had.

Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08