Even though my wife says she wants to work on the relationship, she moved out, got her own place, took off her ring etc. She does not want me to move in any time soon, but wants to have a family night and a date night. She says she needs space.
You have so much to be thankful for. She is telling you exactly what she wants and you throw D papers under her nose. You are not listening. You have a great chance to make this work.
"Learned Optimism" - Martin Seligman will help you.
Make a list of all you are grateful for.
You have a choice in how you handle this. Choose wisely.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
