Hang in there bro. My wife said once to me that she wanted us to be like Bruce Willis and Demi Moore. WTF? She said that she wants us to be like her sister and her sisters ex where they would go to there kid's brithday party and act civil. She wouldn't mind seeing me with someone else.

The week before we split she told me she couldn't bare seeing me in the same state with someone else. That was before she meet these OM.

Just be tough and man up. I know its hard because its also hard for me too.

Me:27
W:24
S:2
D:9 months
M:3 years
Together for 8 years
Bombed : 6/11/09
Moved out: 6/27/09
Found out about her affair 9/7/09
(she started her's at 6/25/09)
Begged n plead 7/25/09
started DB 8/17/09