my wife let the kids call me this morning,before i was able to talk to my son she grabbed the phone. she was angry because she said my brother was trying to call her.i told her he was probably trying to talk to the kids.

then she asked what day court was and if i would drive a box truck to va with all there things. i told her i didnt know if i would have time, but we could talk about it later.

she then said i needed to move on with my life ,i told her i was but i need my children in my life and they needed me. she said i aways will bein there life.

then she went into defense mode completly ...she never has been happier in her life and tried to make things work for eight years and had no plans or even a second thought about us.

it was so hard not to lose my cool. she has to somewhere know herself thats bs.


im having a really hard time today cant even work today...

got any advice or words of wisdom?


me 27
w 26
d7
s5
t17
m7
moved to tx from va 02/25/09
sold home in va and moved 03/23/09
bomb 04/16/09
w&kids in va
me in tx working