Next month would have been my 11th and I'm not sure what I'm going to do just yet. I believe it deserves some type of recognition as it's a date that will forever be in our lives because it meant something really wonderful at one point. But, I certainly don't think it's healthy to just make it a day in mourning either.
Matter of fact, I think I just figured it out, and maybe you can try this and let me know how it goes. I think I'm going to go about my day (which will be trying seeing it's a Saturday 10/17 obviously), and at 3:30, time of wedding, maybe observe a 'moment of silence' of sorts, kick back with a glass of zinfendel as we always did and reflect on the good times we shared for the duration of 45 minutes that the ceremony was. When times up, boom, go about the rest of the day, go see a movie or hang with friends or something to let yourself know life has gone on.
I think it just might work.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
