Or you look at the other side of the coin. If he can't move in, that says something. Which is better than moving in for the wrong reasons. Yikes and moving in with the fanfare of celebrating your anniversary.. too much for an ambivalent man.
On your week off, go away. Give yourself your own vacation. Let him catch up to you rather than waiting for him. Men love the pursuit and what they feel they can't have.
This is not being coy.. it's seeing what your options are, what you feel. Sometimes when keeping your nose to the grindstone of 'making the marriage work' you forget about life, living and growth.
Give yourself a break and find the sunshine and smile within.
