UPSIDE DOWN - still struggling, trying to detach

[Lost Rabbit]

Its funny but being cryptic/mysterious really bugs them doesnt it, its almost laughable that they dont want us but still want to know what we are doing to apease their guilt, so when we dont play ball they are left in limbo the same as us! I used to tell H everything, infact you know the scenario in the 5LL book about one being a talker and the other a listener well that is H and me, I fill holes with words, well not anymore, I leave holes for him to fill and worry about lol. It seems like things were going well and I like the way you emailed him but didnt apolagise just said it was sad, probably verifying how he feels about the whole thing too. Now I'd wait for the email, you cant move until you know if its more contact or more unpleasantries. I'd go with a little more contact if he's nice, withdraw if he is not. Do you know how to send piccies of the cats doing daft things on your phone.. I know our H's miss the moggies and one thing my H said in passing in the first few weeks was he liked to see piccies of my little girlie. Its contact but non pursuing, just a gentle reminder of who else he has left behind. ooh and keep that hairdo going that definitly rattled him, I hope mine works as well! Will try and report in later but if not wont be till H has gone some time saturday.