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[RedSoxFan]

All,

I need some advice on how to respond to my current situation. The email is a little more than halfway down on page 45 I think

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1839936&page=45

The way I see it I have 3 options.

1) Ignore the email completely and see what happens. That's basically what happened last time but last time seemed a little different because the email was sent following an argument. As best I can tell she seems to struggle emotionally when doing stuff with OM, then gets angry at me, then brings up the need to end marriage again.

2) Ignore the email and let her l know today that I can no longer be married to someone with OM. Agree to move forward with the disillusion. Offer to let her do the paperwork and I can offer to handle the Realtor (she may be thinking that we get disillusion and she carries on business as usual with custody, house and current support). Tell her all I want is a fair 50/50 split on everything. I could also do #2 on Monday when she returns from weekend away with OM. That way she doesn't have the entire weekend for him to console her and take away the impact.

3) Say OK I agree to the email she sent and proceed to outline details like #2.

Any thoughts?