Dunno how I can DB my way out of this phase. Once H is gone, word gets around, he won`t have the courage to come back. And really, I don`t think I should hold on to hope but just let him go and move on myself.
FG,
Listen, First of all, remember that DB'ing is for YOU.
You have done an amazing job with all of this crap so far. What is happening right now NEEDS TO HAPPEN.
They are all things that HE needs to do to get to the other side.
Things that happen FOR YOU, should be the things that you need to do for your happiness through this.
Part of your journey..
The kids ? Yea, that stings. They didn't deserve any of this.
But that CAN'T change your devotion to them....
Who better to SHOW them the proper way to deal with adversity than you ?
This can be positive for them and you if you choose to view it that way.
Through their lives, they will run into situations where they are lost and confused as to how they should handle different situations. Then they will remember and think of how awesome their Mother did it when she was faced with tough times.
It is how you SHOW them Dignity, Honor , and Grace that will matter to them and mold them into the people they will eventually become in their lives...
It can start now, Be the memory today, that you want them to have tomorrow.....
