? for people who have gone to Retrouvaille

[Trixi]

Well, he won't go to the retro this weekend.
He didn't like feeling like it was 'sprung' on him.

I talked with one of the local retro people and she suggested that we could go to the Portland one in October if the timing for this one really was the problem for my H.

He was also miffed because I brought up the house issue. He thought that we had decided that I would buy the house regardless because it would be a good investment.

He doesn't feel mentally prepared and figures it would do no good for him to go when he isn't in the right frame of mind.

I asked him if he would have agreed to go with 3 weeks notice and he said yes. So, then I suggested the one in mid-october in Portland and he agreed to go.

This should be interesting to see if he actually follows thru.

I'm disappointed, but I can understand that he feels like it was sprung on him. And he did immediately agree to go to the one in October....