Again I am so baffled as to why someone would want to continue being like this versus just trying to get along. And she continues to tell me that I am negative, a bad person, not sincere, etc.
She is unhappy with herself. She can't love anyone else if she doesn't love herself. So, she makes negative comments. And, she tries bringing people down to her level.
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I have been reading the posts, but have not seen a lot of comments to that effect. I will keep looking. While I would not wish it on anyone else, it helps me to think I am not the only one in a situation like this.
When I first came here, actually before coming here, I felt very alone and believed my situation was unique. No one has gone through what I am going through right now, not like I am going through it. But after reading a lot of posts here, I quickly realized while this situation was unique to ME, there were MANY others going through the same thing I was. I was not happy to be going through it, but there was comfort knowing I was not alone.
And neither are you.
You may be able to salvage your relationship. You may not. What you can do is make yourself a person only someone who is nuts would leave.
