Well, I'm doing good. I think I'm really finally to the point where I have almost completely detached- or is it resignation(?)-
Hummm, well I would think that the resignation would have to come before "true" detachment. As we say here on the board, "It is what it is". A whole lot of detaching the folks on the board do.....is really faking it till they make it. But don't tell them I said that....(lol).
Sandi,
Agreed . I think it is a little bit of both right now. My sitch is crazy and I'm just exhausted. I could tell you about the fight she picked with me over custody of the kids tonight but I won't even bother. It's just crazy.
I've come to accept the fact that my W "feels what she feels" and needs to believe and think certain things so everything "tracks" with her feelings. She needs to follow a certain path no matter what the consequences. The kids and I just need to get out of the way, hang on tight and do our best to survive.
Consider the rope dropped!
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
. I think it is a little bit of both right now. My sitch is crazy and I'm just exhausted. I could tell you about the fight she picked with me over custody of the kids tonight but I won't even bother. It's just crazy. 
