Does retro address communication when one partner has anxiety issues? For example, our marriage counselor would explain our communication as I just want to discuss something and my emotions would be at a level 2 but it would get my hubby very anxious and his level would immediately just to a level 10. Level's being emotional upset. Things would deteriorate. I mean I fell like we fall into a different category. I know that my wanting to talk about something is me "trying to start something" in his mind. I really feel at this point that I can not openly discuss some things with my hubby. I, at this point, try to not say what I feel b/c past experience has shown negative results.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
