How do you react when the WAS throw that kind of stuff at you? Def doing things for my daughter and me. I hv another older daughter from a previous marriage she is 16 yrs old. My ex told me that my daughters would be more like cusions than sisters. Anything to get at me...
You have to let it roll off your back. I bet when she realizes she can't get a rise out of you with these types of comments, she will stop her comments.
It sounds like your ex is a pretty unhappy person. If she doesn't like herself, it is common for a person like that to want to pull others around them down to their level rather than them work on pulling themselves up to your's.
Read other posts on these boards. You will find striking similarities to yours.