It was a pretty quiet day from her - no text/emails at all until I wound up talking to the kids.
After my run, I chatted with my boys. I was really upbeat and pumped up since I will see them tomorrow. I just can't wait. I was joking around with the boys for a bit. She wound up texting me something funny that was related to something I was joking with the boys about.
The boys said she wanted to talk to me after they were done talking with me
When she got on the phone, first she said there was a bill that I needed to pay since I "owed" it. I asked what it was then once we went through it, it turned out she actually owed me money as I overpayed it. Then she asked to borrow money to pay her share since she didn't have the money.
I was getting irritated so I just said put it in with the laptop and I'll take a look at it.
WTF!?!?!?
This is BS. She cheated on me and left and is having money problems and really expects me to bail her out?!?!!?
I just need to figure out a way to say no without it escalating again.
Unbelievable.....
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