My W has threatened me with divorce on two separate occasions (early May and three weeks ago)...and still no served papers. She actually contacted a lawyer the second time around.
Be cool and be calm. Make an appointment with an attorney to determine your rights...this will give you peace of mind. My lawyer told me to sit back and relax. It's not over till it's over. Focus on making yourself happy during this time.
Regards, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009