I think few people these days tend to think that you should do anything and everything you can to reconcile with your ex. If you have been married and/or if you have children, you should go to great lengths to make amends. I have so many people tell me that I need to move on, she is not right for you, she is so negative and hateful - you don't want to be with someone like that, etc.
People seem to think I am crazy for wanting to make things work. Wow. I try to make things better. We both have attorneys involved and that tends to escalate things that much more. It is really sad to me to be in this situation. It is hard for me to comprehend why someone would choose this type of situation for themselves and thier children.
Hope this board will help me be a better person for myself and one that my ex could see. Sometimes I just need some encouragement to stay the course. It goes so contrary to what we normally want to do when people treat us badly. The ole saying of turning the other cheek and kill em with kindness have to be in full effect in these situations.
This is definately a day to day ordeal. I only would hope there is a way to make things better...
Looking forward to someone guidance from those who have some experience with all this..
