My take is that I don't want my wife to stay with me for any other reason than the fact that she wants to be here. Not the kids, not the hideous logistics of divorce, not friends and family telling her she's insane. Otherwise, I will be dealing with this situation again in the future.
I totally agree with this, but sometimes it is the reality of losing someone or logistical issues that force the removal of the rose colored glasses and get the WAS to look at you again as a prospect...it is a fine line.
