Ok I may be setting myself up for 2x4's but I need to know -
I still pay the car insurance as well as the cell bill - He is on both - Should I remove him and if so do I tell him?
Don't pay for him. Email him and let him know that you're having him removed from the account on X date, so he'll need to make arrangements to get his own insurance/cell plan. Not sure how to phrase it, but I'm sure others will chime in.
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Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!