There is nothing you could have done to prevent MLC

There is nothing you can do to stop it from runing it's course.

You can however do things to change yourself so that if the marriage is reconcilled you will have a better relationship then before.

And even it isn't, you will be a better version of yourself.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.