I totally agree that there are similarities - (and BTW I am grateful that I am not dealing with infid.) I also agree that it sounds fairly typical of A behavior.
I am hanging in there - not expecting one way or the other about the M. I am in there for myself- I am posting for myself and my need to get unstuck again. I am also back on the A boards for support.
Was quite sad today but ok now. Next week will be hard as I have it off and it was supposed to be the week H moved in and celebrate our anniversary. Look like there is no celebrating going on.
