K~ so sorry you are having to deal with this. All of us here have different stories, but read the posts. I am new but I have found hope in some threads, peace in others. Just do your very best to be strong. Listen to what Sandi said above. I have read a lot of her posts and she is blatantly honest in an attempt to wake you up to what you are doing, what is really going on.

I wish for you peace this weekend while your H is with OW. Take care!

BIM

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M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11

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