HELP!!! I need my DB brothers and sisters!

[ACJ]

Does that answer your question?

V much so b/c it's pretty much the same conclusion I came to.

Based on that (and the fact that my STBXH is having a baby with OW) I decided for myself it was time for me to move on. I guess that decision made a difference to the way I came across to other people. Suddenly friends I have made whilst in this turmoil started telling me how fantastic I looked. One guy I know even told me I looked fabulous in a dress and asked what had happened to me. I laughed to myself b/c I've worn that particular dress many times in his company and he has never noticed before (we are just friend he has a beautiful GF.

Then the unthinkable happened. I went to a party, met a guy who was a mutual friend of the girl whose party it was and we hit it off immediately. Admittedly it didn't last long (although we have kept in touch) but my change of out look on life clearly made a difference. More importatnly it made me realise that I am an important person in my own right and I can't explain how good that made me feel.

We each get to that point in our own time but we have to decide when/if we are ready. You will get there and when you do it will come totally unexpected.