Yeah...stay consistent in your words and actions, and demonstrate change. Strive to be strong, powerful, confident, secure, and compassionate. Fear immobilizes us, and makes us make poor decisions. Don't believe anything she says right now. Remember, 'filing' any paperwork IS NOT divorcing!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.