THANKS Pup. Its so funny that we get such encouragement from people we don't know. And believe me, hearing from you that I'm doing more right was good to hear. Your post actually made me feel better.
And that is one of my favorite quotes: If success was easy everyone would do it. A little encouragement goes a long way.
Will look up Tristan's thread b/s my H is totally stringing me along. I know it and in my heart I want a change.