Coach, good news is that GIMA had provided strong advice about always being the first person out and being VERY strong. I never wait for kisses and I end the conversations. GIMA straightned me out early on that. I probably blew two weeks there, but after discussing it with GIMA he said strap some on and be the man. Good advice. She now comes to me everynight to kiss me good night. And if she doesnt, I show no worry or concern. I have kept phone calls and texts to a minimum and they generally only involve issues relating to the children.
Keep the suggestions comming. I am open to all.
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
