That doesn't ruin it and I really did it honestly, because: 1.) I didn't really want to go. 2.) I could feel he wanted to go alone....not that he didn't want me to go, but more that he wanted a little personal adventure, some alone time. And I don't want credit for not going, I would like to know that he noticed....a year ago this would have been a huge huge fight. And today, I was really happy for him.
