I got a text message earlier from him saying "I'm really struggling with this. I had some plans for the weekend and we can't jam tonight, so I am leaning towards no" I wrote back and said "Hmmm.... I guess I'm not sure how missing a jam session and changing some plans is going to have the same impact on your future as possibly getting come clarity by going to something that won't be back for 6 months"
He hasn't responded back. That was over an hour ago. Maybe I shouldn't have said anything. Maybe I should have just said "Thanks- you just gave me the clarity I needed". But I thought that since he was "struggling" and "leaning" that I should give it one last shot.
so bummed. so so bummed.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing