I got a text message earlier from him saying
"I'm really struggling with this. I had some plans for the weekend and we can't jam tonight, so I am leaning towards no"
cry
I wrote back and said "Hmmm.... I guess I'm not sure how missing a jam session and changing some plans is going to have the same impact on your future as possibly getting come clarity by going to something that won't be back for 6 months"

He hasn't responded back. That was over an hour ago. Maybe I shouldn't have said anything. Maybe I should have just said "Thanks- you just gave me the clarity I needed". But I thought that since he was "struggling" and "leaning" that I should give it one last shot.

so bummed. so so bummed.


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing