I was making the point that, there are so many reasons to make sure we've done everything we could. When she stopped me I didn't press it. Yeah, I don't want to guilt her into it.
Plus, her version of that solution is to stay seperated in the house. I don't want that, I want my W.
I'm starting to see what a lot of people have said. I don't want my old M back. I want something better.
I've had trouble balancing. I've let work strip me bare. I need to make changes for me. Either be OK with taking less responsiblity at work, or learning to cope better. If this works out, things need to be different.