Had H's family over for brunch Sunday, along with mine. We had an excellent time. I hadn't seen his sister in 7 yrs, so didn't want to pass up the opportunity. There was an elephant in the room which everyone did a nice job of ignoring. H thanked me profusely for hosting such a fun get-together, although every time I saw him he didn't look so happy.
I just received my copy of the recommendation from the mediator regarding visitation & it was scathing. H not only didn't get the 50% he requested, he didn't even get the 28% he would have gotten from me. It was for 20%, no weekday overnights.
Anyway, the importance of keeping record of actual time spent is really important in visitation cases. They try to keep things status quo & look behind someone trying for a sudden large increase in time.
