Is my sitch WAS or MLC?

[MrBond]

You ARE stronger. There's nothing stronger than a mother who is defending her child. If you could go through childbirth, you can go through stepping up to your H.

Dig deep down and remember the pain and the work you did to give birth. Let that strength come out in your voice and in your walk. First thing you need to do is look at yourself in the mirror. Then straighten your back, square out your shoulders, look yourself in the eye and say "I am strong". Once you're comfortable with that, put a picture of your H on the mirror, look him in the eye and say "I am strong". Say it loud and proud. You'll find the strength coming back into you. Sometimes it takes just a little effort to make you feel better.

"I have detached to a certain point. I havent spoken to or seen him in three months. This does not seem to bother him."

At this point it shouldn't bother you either. Detach and live your life. Move back home where you have the support of others who actually care for you. If he cared that much about his child, then he will move with you. NOT the other way around.