You will be amazed at what triggers your emotions. Ride them out like waves. I've only been at this for 4 months, but it's better. I still cry, but not as often and not as long. People are coming into my life whom I never expected...a true blessing.

I filed ONLT to protect myself financially. I don't want to lose my marriage and my financial security. I can always withdraw the petition and my lawyer knows I want to attempt reconciliation.

Hang in there....this experience sucks, but you will prevail in the end. Take care of those kiddos!


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B