I hate that I feel I am being forced to go against my beliefs because he just doesn't want to do anything...
He is perfectly content living this way and I may have to sacrifice my value system to move forward in my life because quite honestly I don't know how much longer I can live like this.
Filing for divorce to protect yourself doesn't go against your values does it? If you file you can drop it.
What a great 180 too. Your husband doesn't think you have the will to do it. It will actually be very attractive to him to see you take care of yourself. Think about it. Find out the facts for your state, talk to a lawyer. Worst thing that could happen is you know another option.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
