Just as I was beginning to think that my H was different.
Yesterday, after dropping hints at S6's open house for parents, he follows me to my car & tells me again that he's made huge mistakes & what would I think about getting back together. Maybe get some c'ing & see what happens.
He doesn't know, we may be back @ this spot in two years...people really don't change.
My response was; I have to get going to P/U the kids, I don't have time to talk. I love you, but I'm no longer in love with you. I'm sorry you didn't feel the need to put actions behind your words. I'm enjoying my life right now & have no interest in doing this again in two years. I like being around someone that treats me incredibly well. This is probably for the best.
Boom, and there it was, my H arguing against D, asking me how I can compare a 10 yr R to one "in it's infancy, where you don't even live together. Doesn't that mean anything to you?"
He went on & on talking about all the positive aspects of our M until I left with a "better get going."
So, 2 weeks until our hearing & it looks like he's doing some serious regretting.
