Hi guys, well just sounding off here. I get a little frustrated when somebody we've worked with just suddenly stops posting. That seems to have happen a lot with people I've posted to....lol. It would be nice to at least know they are alright! Anyway, I'm always glad to hear from all of you.
I was sorry to see Orich leave....but at least it was all good. What do you all think about telling your S about the board? Almost all of them are going to not want you talking about the M. Which....makes sense. Also, I felt that Orich was probably being very honest and open with his W at the retreat this past weekend....and that was probably when he told her about the board. But....then she wanted him to stop. I suppose one would see it as withholding something, but at the same time, would a S "have" to tell if it was your way of getting help? Would you feel that you had to tell your S what was in your journal? Anyway, give me your thoughts.
Thanks
Hi Sandi,
I was a little bothered by that when I read it, to be honest with you Sandi, but I didn't push it on his thread because they had such a breakthrough over their Retrou weekend. But it's unsettling to me that someone who is truly repentant and wanting to work on their marriage would make such a request of their partner, when they only use the board for support and it's ANONYMOUS anyway.
