If you want the DB system to work for you, then you have GOT to fight the urge to pursue him, and go all "needy/grabby" on him, because that will categorically NOT work!!!
Try to stir up some righteous indignation within you, if you can. He's going to see his girlfriend and CHEAT on you, for goshsakes!
You deserve better than that, K. You are God's creation, and worthy of love and fidelity.
