I probably would have lost W and first daughter during delivery without significant drugs, surgery and medical intervention!
I don't mean to get too personal but often, if one starts with medical intervention (bed-bound, drugs etc) it can actually cause more harm and lead to intervention and surgery. I done a lot of research on this and I don't purport to know more than doctors, I just have seen how the way patients are handled can lead to serious problems. I have no idea in your case.
And, I am extremely grateful for medical technology and intervention when it is completely necessary.
