Need to really make changes for me (thread #3)

[BeingMe]

Or, you can tell him to give you a call when he has his stuff packed to come home. Otherwise, you're not interested in BS talk. He's mucking about, keeping you waiting, keeping the OW on a string too. As much as you probably despise OW, just realise that she's on the same puppet string as you. Or, so it seems.

Then, get on with your life, and if you're still interested by the time he gets serious, think about it first.

Take care.