H: I am coming home don't worry Me: Ok no problem let me know when u wanna get serious with a date
There you have it. He knows it's "no problem" for him to continue to do what he's ALWAYS done, Vicky, and that's stall you and throw you just enough crumbs along the way to keep his "Vicky" plate spinning on his stick.
You need to read more of Robx's latest stuff, esp. to Tristan. For starters, why did YOU initiate:
Quote:
After our b/s talk and I know H wants to come home. I texted: Let's stop beating around the bush DO YOU WANNA COME BACK HOME?? Text YES or NO.
A better approach would be to totally drop it, and let HIM approach YOU, and then when he does:
H: Don't worry, I'm coming home soon.
V: I'm not sure that's what I want anymore. I think you may be right -- we (fill in his stated marital complaints here)."
I'm sorry, I know you've increased the AMPLITUDE of it all, but I just don't see anything in the content of your interaction(s) with him that indicates that you are in any WAY "tired of his b.s."
